November 18, 2011

  • The Tale of Thus

    Our family have only had one pet and that was a little dog (Terrier Jack-Russel mix) called ‘Thus’ he was short and long and lived a wonderful life that I will always remember.

    As with most pets you really don’t realise how much they mean to you and how much time you spend with them until they are gone and even though he’s been dead many years now I still remember him fondly.

    When we first got him we had to drive to the place where he and his siblings were and when we got there me my brother and my mum all picked up one pup each and tried to decide which one was the best. Mine was a small and sleepy little chap who was at the bottom of the squirming pile of puppies and promptly fell asleep when I picked him up, my mum picked up a very furry and fluffy little pup who was much more lively, but my brother picked up Thus and due to the distinctive white marking on his neck we agreed he was the one.

    So we popped him in a box and drove him home, unfortunately the noise and strangeness of the car and his abduction from home clearly had an impact and from that day on he was terrified by cars and would usually spend any trip with his head stuck under the front seats shivering.

    When we got him home we still hadn’t picked a name, we now with my dad in the team we all sat around and had a good ponder. Eventually after none of us could settle on something we liked my Dad came out with Thus, and since it was rather pleasingly abstract we agreed.

    We lived and still do in the Highlands of Scotland and there is wilderness almost everywhere so we often went for long walks and hikes. Initially little Thus loved these but since his legs were quite short he quickly became tired and when he was young my dad would often end up carrying him home wrapped around his neck like a scarf.

    But as he grew he quickly became much more fit than all of us and we’d often play for hours kicking a football up and down a near by croft with Thus usually either outpacing us with the ball or often running up and down the croft many times over after it.

    As is so often the case Dogs start to take on the aspects of their owners (or visa versa) and we couldn’t have asked for a more fitting companion, he was kind and understanding, enjoyed the peace and quiet, was VERY lazy and didn’t get on with members of his own species.
    There are so many great images and stories of him of course but I shall only share a few highlights, He loved fishing floats, and one particular hard plastic one was just the right size for him to almost get his mouth onto. It was while he was playing with this float that he first discovered how to growl it sort of surprised him at first but then he got more confident and would growl viciously and look out of the corner of his eyes at you if you tried to get too close.

    And even thought he loved to go out on boats (and bark at seals) he hated the water and wasn’t a fan of swimming atall, possibly because during one trip out on the Canoes (again when he was quite young) and not knowing that water gave way he stepped out of the boat after the swirl that follows a paddle, his little shocked face when he emerged was a treat.

    The most dramatic event of his life was one night when we’d let him out (it’s so empty here we often just let him out on his own and he’d come back when he was ready to come in, giving a single little warning bark for the door to be opened) but this night it was a pretty bad storm and after a few hours he wasn’t back, we listened and thought we heard barking but due to the wind we couldn’t hear where he was, eventually we went to bed he’d been out all night before and has been fine.

    The next morning I looked through the patterned glass of the front door and saw a familiar black shape, but when I opened the door Thus staggered in bedraggled and covered with blood. I let him in and he collapsed onto blankets we had in the front room, going out side to check for any evidence I found a single little bloody paw print where he’s stopped to drink from a bucket filled with water.

    By the looks of the many small puncture wounds on his head and neck we guessed he’d tried to go for an Otter somewhere and had of course been outmatched by the incredible agility of the creature. And due to the toxicity of the wounds he spent the next few weeks if not month basically lying on his side as his face swelled up, he almost died.
    Afterwards his personality was a little more harsh and it took another few months after his recovery before he was pretty much back to normal.

    Before the Otter he would snore while sleeping but afterwards his snoring became a lot louder but it was still one of the most wonderfully relaxing and peaceful sounds to drift off with.

    I can honestly say I loved Thus he was a perfect companion and lived for around 14 years all the way through most of my childhood, he would always play and was amazingly gentle despite being able to bite clean through a telephone directory. But my most fond memories will always be just sitting with him listening to his quiet breathing and sharing that wonderful trust and companionship dogs do so well.

    Eventually of course he got old and bit by bit slowed down until (due to sore rheumatic joints) he would no longer go on even short walks, the best he’d do was to walk 5 mins down the road and then I’d carry him around some of the usual smells and interesting things.

    And then one night he crawled under the fire, which is a lovely multi-fuel aga with just enough space underneath it for him to fit and was a favourite place for him to get cooked up before crawling out panting and collapsing somewhere to cool down.
    But this time was his last and his death was one of the best examples of it’s kind I can imagine.

    He’d been slowing down over the past few weeks until eventually he just stopped eating, and then drinking. Then he went under the fire and lay there for most of the day, we patted him and stayed with him, and in the evening he began to bark as if he was giving death a good barking, he would stop if I put my hand on him but begin again as soon as I moved it, and then he went quiet and just breathed slowly.
    The best thing was that he waited until my mum had gotten home and had chance to say good bye before he finally died.

    His death seemed noble and accepting to me and although sad filled me with a kind of joy that he’d left how he chose and surrounded by his adopted pack.

    It’s incredible how we can share such a bond between species, the very idea that we take another entire creature into our homes and lives and care for them and interact with them daily is really quite strange when you look at it.

    Not really sure why I wrote all this or if it will be interesting in the slightest to anyone else but I was supposed to be getting on with work and this blog was a good excuse to skive, so if you managed to get to the end of this rather long and pointless post first off thanks and second I hope you enjoyed meeting little Thus because he was a fine example of a dog. :D     

Comments (36)

  • Sounds like a true companion. I am sorry for your loss, but happy you experienced the love.

  • Aww..he sounds like a wonderful dog..and I’m sure he was. 

  • @Airustobulous - @Babieboo_Annie - Thanks guys! I wasn’t expecting Recs for this one :D

  • @BFB1131 - A lot of people can relate to the loss of a pet whom they loved.

  • This warmed my heart. He was a great little companion.

    I consider Oliver, my dog, to be my best friend. I love him to death and being around him when he does weird things, like how Thus snored. I’m sorry you no longer have him, but I guess that’s how it goes. Nothing stays around forever and one day I’ll also loose Oliver.

    Sad, but amazing to grow up with a friend and memories.

  • Have you ever watched Marley & Me? Your ending reminded me of it. :( I know what it’s like to share a close relationship with an animal. I love my pup, regardless of how he can have me chasing after him around the neighborhood. 

  • Glad for the joy your shared with Thus. But, sad that he is gone. I really loved reading about him.

    My dog has quickly become my best friend. No human fills that role any more.

    HUGS

  • This was soo heartwarming. Thus sounded like an incredibly adorable dog and companion. :) My lab is turning 8 soon and I don’t know what I’d do without him. Great post, the memories were wonderful to read! 

  • @jennylovve - Yes i think it’s even because they not only teach us so much about life but also give us the oppertunity to experiance death that they are so valuable, esspecially for children.

    @HelloKitty0809 - I’ve not see that actually i shall have to get hold of it sometime. What type of dog do you have?

    @adamswomanlost - I know what you mean, there’s just no front with a dog no layers of emotion or illusion to get in the way of true companionship.
    Whats your dog like?

    @suuperstar - I hope your dog will be around for many years yet :D and yea some of the memories of Thus are often my most cherished.

  • Thanks for sharing Thus’s story with us. You have a lot of good memories.

  • Definitely know how you feel. I’ve had a good amount of pets, but I fondly remember the ones I grew up with throughout most of my life. Reading your story made me reminisce of my own loved pets and how I truly loved them.

    Thank you for this.

  • When Eddie, our “white dog” was dieing I remember sleeping all night beside him on his blanket.  He knew it wouldn’t be long, his heart was giving out, and that was one of the best nights sleep I have ever had.

    I think it is a pact that has been written over hundreds of years of living together, dogs and humans.  We get to feed them, scratch their tummies and proved a nice warm place to sleep.  They get to love us.

  • A wonderful tribute to your dog! One of the best pieces of writing I’ve seen in a long time.

    We recently lost our dog as well, she had been with us for thirteen years and although she’s been gone nearly two years now, we still expect to see her at the door or sleeping under the table. It is incredible, the bond that we have with our animals. Thank you.

  • @RadioFreeAlbemuth - Haha i like the idea of the tummie scratching pact :D

    @massage_therapist - Thank you :) for the comment and the add. Yeah I was amazed at just how many times i would think of him during a day even a few years after his death.

  • I post make me missed my dad’s dog – Tomyam.

  • Sounds like you should make a movie about him.

  • What a lovely story. :)

    I used to not be a pet person, but a little over a year ago my parents bought a cockapoo puppy. Her name is Zlata. It took a long time for me to warm up to her, but now I enjoy spending time with her. I’ll admit, that I will be sad and miss her when I eventually move abroad.

  • I  heard about this on FS.. Why didn’t you marry him?

  • This is the most loving story I’ve read this week. He was such an amazing dog, as kind and caring as you are

  • Wildbell (his blog “Sic”) has a photo of his dog posing with the cat.(http://www.wildbell.com/) In an earlier blog he says his dog also hates water and he has never seen his dog swim but he was able to video one moment where he had to swim,

    Your blog serves two purposes: to memorialize your dog and to present something about how humanity and animals interact.

  • @RestlessButterfly - :D Nice name.

    @bmojsilo - Hehe yea, not much would happen, he was a pretty quiet dog :)
    But he was certainly a character.

    @Cestovatelka - Thanks :)
    Yes it’s impressive how much they end up meaning to us, esspecially when you consider they are entirely different creatures.

    @fabolousclown - HAHAHA well he’s dead for one :P
    But i’m not afraid to say I did love him…but only in a platonic way ;)

    @xXxlovelylollipop - :D Thanks!
    He was and still is one of the finest dogs i’ve ever known, and despite it’s sadness I was deeply affected by the honour of his death.

    @RestlessButterfly - Hehe I never replyed to your comment ages ago, sorry :)
    But now you get two replys! ;)   HUGS

    @PPhilip - Well said, I like your comments :)

  • @BFB1131 - My UGLY hands is ready for you on my blog.

  • Such a loving story is hardly pointless.  He had a great life and impacted the hearts of your family.  No one could ask for much more than that.

  • @RestlessButterfly - haha rec’d and commented :)
    only just missed first comment :P

    I’ve asked a lot of girls for their hands recently, but yours is still esspecially nice lol ;)

  • @RighteousBruin - Thank you :)
    I’m glad you enjoyed it, I know i’ll remember him till the day I die.

  • This almost made me cry. This reminds me of the love I have for my cat. It is crazy how we open up our lives to an animal, and they end up so wrapped up in our lives, you don’t know how you lived without them in the first place.

  • He sounds like a wonderful dog.  I never had a pet b/c my parents aren’t too fond of them, but I always wished I could have a dog.  Maybe in the future I’ll get one.

  • Man, I really would like to experience such a bond someday.  I can’t have pets in my current place, but once I live somewhere that I can I will get myself a dog. 

  • i really like his name, so fitting. so does this mean you are lazy and don’t get along with people? ;)

  • @BFB1131 - And uncleared… lalala 

  • @RighteousBruin - Tomyam is a kind of food – Thailand Recipe – sour hotpot. 

  • @LexIsBossy - I know! :) After he died it was months before I didn’t expect to see him around the places or waiting outside the door.
    And we all still have dreams with him in, I think it’s a really important thing to have a pet and see that kind of relationship.

    @suefa_lee - You should :) They genuinely are a unique and loving creature.
    What sort of dog do you think you might get?

    @Roadlesstaken - Cool! :D Do you have any idea what type you’d think about getting?

  • @wyrdkismet - Haha well I woke at 13:47 today :P so I’ve definately got the lazy bit covered.
    And although I do get on with folks I also try my best to avoid them lol…so yea ;)

  • @BFB1131 - I have no idea.  I just want one that is medium size and cute.  As you can tell, I don’t know much about dogs except that they are cute and could be a great companion.

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